Amber

I’m an open minded person, non judgemental and very down to earth. There’s not much I mind when being roomies with someone, only having mutual respect for each other. I have a few pet peeves but nothing major. I would assume you do to. I’m pretty sure we can work those out easily and both be happy in the end. I work a lot (usually leave around 8:45 am and not home until 6-9pm depending on how long my route is) so I’m not home much. I go to bed between 11pm-1 am on nights I work but will occasionally stay up later nights I don’t have to work the next day. I don’t care what your schedule is or when you go to sleep. All I ask is not to be overly loud where I can’t sleep or get woke up. Normal household noises I’m good with. Now if you’re going to have a block party on a night I need my sleep just let me know and I’ll crash at mom’s that night. It’s just vital that I get decent sleep for my job because I’m behind the wheel for 8-10 hours a day. I love to cook occasionally, when I have the time to do so. Pretty good at it too & I don’t mind sharing the nom noms when I do cook. There’s not much I don’t like when it comes to stuff like food, music, hobbies, interests. Yes, I have a kiddo, one daughter (one and done, no more kids for me) who would be staying over with me on nights I don’t have to work the next day. 2, maybe 3 nights a week. She’s well behaved, not loud, whiney or mischievous. She doesn’t get into things that aren’t hers and won’t color on your walls. She won’t clog up your toilets or break your things. She does love Minecraft, so if you play that, she might want to play too. She’s nice to animals, so if you have any she will not terrorize them. She’s a good girl in general. She’s very shy at first but once she gets to know you, she may talk to you a lot and ask you questions depending on her mood. However, if you don’t really vibe with kiddos, I’ll make sure she doesn’t bother you. If that is the case, just do not be mean or nasty towards her. If you have issues with anything she does, come to me about it please. Since she’s my only child it may seem like I spoil her but she’s not a spoiled brat. I’m fairly lenient with her but not in any harmful way. I don’t let her do everything she wants but some people do disagree with some things I allow her to do (ex: she has her own phone to play games on). If you ever disagree with how I parent my child, I would be open to hearing your opinions as long as you are respectful and as long as you ultimately understand that she’s my kid and I try to do what’s best for her. I know sometimes, especially if you have kids of your own, we could potentially disagree on things but that’s ok as long as respect remains what the end result of our disagreements is. I hate drama and tension between people. I don’t cause drama. I don’t over step my boundaries. Yes, I also have a cat I’m desperately hoping to bring with me wherever I go. He’s such a great guy. I’ve had him 6 years, longer than I’ve had my kiddo. I got him as an emotional support pet and he has definitely fulfilled that role. He’s also a rescue. I adopted him when he was 3 months old so I’m the only mommy he knows. He’s well behaved, trained & not aggressive at all (he’s actually a scaredy cat). He’s never bit or scratched anybody. He doesn’t tear up furniture & he won’t pee or poop anywhere but his litter box, which I clean daily. I can’t stand a dirty, stinky litter box. He’s fixed so he won’t be spraying and getting the neighborhood lady kitties prego. Please let me bring him. He can be indoor/outdoor or indoor only. I could never just put him outside only though. If indoor/outdoor, I buy flea/tick/worm treatment regularly. If indoor only, he can stay exclusively in my room if you prefer that. He knows how to adapt to either of those scenarios, just please, not outdoor only. I’m a clean and organized person but not OCD about it. I don’t mind keeping my area clean and helping clean the shared spaces/areas I use. No worries about me leaving messes anywhere or not cleaning up behind myself, my kid or my cat. I do love a clean kitchen cuz that’s where we keep & prepare the noms. I would love my own private bathroom or half bathroom, but if we share one I’d appreciate it being kept clean too. Of course, I will always keep those areas clean if I use them. You don’t have to be a neat freak yourself just practice basic cleanliness is what I’m trying to say. I’m not overly picky but I just can’t live somewhere that’s stinky, dirty or unsafe (ex: no animal poop/pee on floor, no bugs in house, no electrical problems, no mold/mildew issues, no excessive hoarding, no aggressive animals, no sketchy people/activities). I’m hoping whoever I become roomies with that we’ll end up being good friends with similar expectations and attitudes towards things. Not a must but would love that. Anything else may work but might be awkward and not last long. I’m hoping to find a place to share with someone for a while, until I can save enough to comfortably move on my own. Longer term pretty much (6 months-1 year +) I don’t mind weird people, as long as you’re not weird in a way that’s inappropriate. Open to being roomies with anybody. I don’t care what race, religion, gender or lack thereof you are. I don’t care what your sexual orientation is (however, if you are a sex offender, I can’t be your roomie. No offense but I have a kiddo and won’t risk her safety). I don’t care what occupation you have, as long as you’re not doing anything illegal that’s gonna get your door kicked in by the police and send us all to prison. I respect everyone equally and hope you’d do the same for me. I don’t care if you have kids, just don’t let them be mean to or hurt my kiddo. I know kids will be kids but I hate bullying. I don’t care if you have pets, just don’t let them hurt my kiddo or my fur baby…or me. If you’d like to know more about me I’d be more than happy to answer any questions you have. Ask me anything. I’m open, honest, responsible and dependable. I’m not a perfect person but I try to be a good one. I like consistency and reliability. I know this description has been long but I tried to include the important details about myself. If you think we’d be a good fit or want more info about me, please contact me. If I don’t respond immediately it’s because I’m not allowed to use my phone while driving at work. Just leave me a text or message and I’ll get back to you in a timely manner. Fingers crossed I can find a good roomie…and I’ll be a good one in return.🤞✌️♥️🙂