Mary Todd

I am a clean person. I value my home and do everything I can to make it a safe space. I’m all about improvement and functionality, and a bit of feng shui. I am able to set and honor boundaries of myself and others. I am a bit of a handywoman, and can troubleshoot most household issues, but also know when to call in a professional. I have homesteaded, farmed, and homeschooled. I’m an Aquarius-Virgo moon- Aquarius rising, so I am quite independent and love my own space, yet am great at developing great friendships. I know when to give others space to be themselves, when to give love, and when to ask what the other needs- be it a hug, a listening ear, or space. I am all about personal growth, healing, breaking cycles, and look forward to residing with others on the same frequency. I don’t have time to coddle anyone’s victim or shadow mentality. I love to learn, be outdoors, dance, sing, drum circle, and books are my love. I am a writer and storyteller, a growing soul on a journey. I’m a peacekeeper, and like to nip issues in the bud with honest and vulnerable conversation instead of letting things fester and explode. I do have adult children, but they live with their own families currently.I do not expect them to come and visit. I am cannabis friendly(I am not using cannabis currently); but can’t stand tobacco smoke. If you smoke tobacco, it should be outside, never in the house. If you smoke tobacco in your house, I’m simply not your roomie, and that is perfectly okay. I love animals, and usually find myself staying with people with pets. I get along well with both cats and dogs. Even pets that don’t like anyone tend to warm up to me. I don’t mind helping with the pets when needed. I am mostly vegan- not religious about it, just try to eat the best I can. I do my best to eat organic. I appreciate good meat even if i choose not to consume it. I have no desire to condemn or convert anyone’s diet and nutrition, but I can share my wisdom and nutrition with you if you ask. I usually go months between partaking of cannabis and alcohol. I always partake in moderation. I prefer being sober, yet will not lecture anyone else’s choices. I prefer to live with like minded people. I’m not up for being a live-in drug & alcohol counselor. Boundaries about company and “get togethers” should most definitely be discussed and upheld. I don’t do well with “company” or “friends” who come into the safe space of my household and disrespect my roomies or our home. I’m not one to stand by and allow someone to be abused in my home, even if it’s someone’s friend, family, or significant other. We can calmly discuss boundaries and such, or the police can be called and have legal boundaries set in place. There’s no place for violence of any kind in the safe space of the home. It is sanctuary. Currently, I am in process of onboarding with Dark Staffing Solutions and am open to finding a safe organic foods farm to work/live on. I would like to complete my transition from food service/hospitality/public jobs to my own companies and continue to save for my future seasons. And finally, I am not religious. I consider myself spiritual, on a path of Unconditional Love. I do my best to respect the paths of others, and I usually love to learn about what they believe per their experiences in this thing we call life. Love is Love and racism from any group is intolerable to me. I consider myself to be a responsible person. I am mastering being my own heroine- I am the only one who can save me and it’s my responsibility and privilege to take care of me. So my bills and stability/ sustenance come first for me. I expect the same of any roomie. I’m not in it to enable anyone who will not do the same for themselves.